Seeing yourself in Christ is a day at a time process. End your day with one or more of these questions.
Did I forgive anything today?
(If so, thank Christ for his forgiveness that makes yours possible.)
Am I holding anything against anybody, whether it happened today or years ago?
(If so, ask Christ's forgiveness for getting out of SYNC with him. Stop holding that thing against that person. Hand it over to Christ to deal with.)
Did I retaliate against anyone today to their face or behind their back?
(Remember that Christ died to end retaliation. There is another way now.)
Did I suggest or encourage forgiveness today? How did that happen?
(Praise God for the privilege of being a carrier of forgiveness.)